There are just so many ways that this is wrong headed:
That sexualized "boy bits" were not also on offer bothers me. That its intent was sexual in a public event and thus completely non-consentual for everyone else at the event. That women found it empowering - it would seem that being straight out asked was just such a relief from hamfisted oogling and drooling that it felt like they had more control over male behaviours.
I don't think naive/conservative has anything to do with it. Respectful of others, definitely. Filled with common sense, obviously.
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Date: 2008-04-30 01:06 pm (UTC)That sexualized "boy bits" were not also on offer bothers me.
That its intent was sexual in a public event and thus completely non-consentual for everyone else at the event.
That women found it empowering - it would seem that being straight out asked was just such a relief from hamfisted oogling and drooling that it felt like they had more control over male behaviours.
I don't think naive/conservative has anything to do with it. Respectful of others, definitely. Filled with common sense, obviously.