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bunsen_h ([personal profile] bunsen_h) wrote2011-01-26 08:12 pm
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Mortality

I finally got on my duff and started writing a note to the guy I shared a room with during my first stay in hospital.  My stamina for sitting at the computer is still poor; the blog that his family set up to inform his friends about his progress mentioned only that he'd started chemo and was having complications with his feeding tube.  I figured there wasn't any great rush.

Before I sent the note, I decided to do another search on his name.  I found his obituary; it seems that he passed away on January 5th.

I never really got to know him well, but he was a nice guy, and our conversations helped make a lousy time a bit less miserable for both of us.  RIP Gary Cybulski.
 

[identity profile] radargrrl.livejournal.com 2011-01-27 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
Very sorry to hear about that. Even though you didn't have the chance to get to know him as you had hoped, it is still a sad loss.

[identity profile] kattale.livejournal.com 2011-01-27 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
Awwww. That is very, very sad. :(
I feel for his family.

And very glad we still have you.

[identity profile] dewline.livejournal.com 2011-01-27 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
Damn...

[identity profile] suelet.livejournal.com 2011-01-27 01:40 pm (UTC)(link)
That just sucks.
I'm glad he was there for you.

[identity profile] ambiviolent.livejournal.com 2011-01-27 04:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear that.

[identity profile] ladymondegreen.livejournal.com 2011-01-27 04:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I am glad you were able to take some of each others' pain away. I hope that his family is comforted by his memory.

*hugs you*